Archive for November, 2009

How many men vs. women use social network sites

November 30th, 2009


socialnetworkgraphArticle from Derek Baird via Barking Robot on Males vs. females on social networking sites. He reports:

To determine the ratio between male and female users on these sites we used site demographics data for the United States gathered from Google’s Ad Planner service.

Before we move on to the chart, here are a few quick observations based on the results we got.

* 84% (16 out of 19) of the sites have more female than male users.
* The social news sites Digg, Reddit and Slashdot have significantly more male users than female. The standout here is Slashdot which takes male geekdom to new heights with 82% male users. :)
* If we hadn’t included the three social news sites, all of the sites would have had more females than males.
* Twitter and Facebook have almost the same male-female ratio; Twitter with 59% female users and Facebook with 57%.
* The most female-dominated site? Bebo (66% female users), closely followed by MySpace and Classmates.com (64%).
* The average ratio of all 19 sites was 47% male, 53% female.

And here’s a chart with the male/female ratio for all the sites, for your viewing pleasure:

from this source at royal.pingdom.com

Insecure Infants grow up to be Insecure adolescents

November 30th, 2009


Interesting article brought to us by Jim Liebel at Youth Culture Watch.

Researchers from the Université de Montréal, Sainte-Justine University Hospital Center and McGill University have discovered that insecure adolescents experience more intense pain in the form of frequent headaches, abdominal pain and joint pain. These teens are also more likely to be depressed than peers with secure attachments.

and this is an interesting statement:

“Although previous studies in adults found that an individual’s security level was influenced by painful experiences, it was not clear why relationship security should be related to pain,” says Dr. Tremblay. “We found that adolescents with insecure relationships tend to be more ‘alarmist’ about their pain symptoms; they have a tendency to amplify the degree of threat or severity of their pain. This amplification leads to more intense pain and more severe depressive symptoms.”

From this article: @ ScienceDaily

61 year old kicks for Austin College

November 28th, 2009


Well, he did it. 61 year old Tom Thompson got into the last game of the season for Austin College and kicked an extra point. Way to go Tom! Never let your dream die. Tom was a back up kicker in High School and even though old enough to be a grand father … went to practice, did the drills, got the respect of team mates and his coaches. The game for Austin College was a blow out … but they did let him in and let him kick. Sure he made it! I know that is what you were wondering. Despite a messy snap … he made it happen. Tom did it for the thrill and a book he is writing on aging and fitness. Just so you know … there are lots of old guys out here that don’t want our age to slow us down and think about playing another game of football. It could happen.

Youth ministry, an anxious tribe

November 26th, 2009


Adam Mclane from adamclane.com has an interesting post that I have pondered and re-pondered. His “Anxiety in Youth Ministry” is well founded in my heart, as I too have been anxious for a couple of years as to … what will happen to church as we know it … or have known it. Adam quotes Campolo …

“Church, as we know it today, will collapse with the economy. And we will shake ourselves off and ask, ‘what do we do now?”

I know many will read this and just let it settle on deaf ears as some fatalistic statement from a kook. But, is it really? If I were an employed minister on a church staff at this point in history … I would be anxious too. Oh, I am anxious enough with the economy and owning my own business. Truth be told, when I first began to feel anxious about the future of the church as a whole … I felt that I needed to do something about not depending on the “organizational” church for my income. Another story, and I digress.

Adam makes this observation next in his post.

A year later we have to step back and acknowledge that in many ways Tony was right.

    * A down economy has forced tens of thousands of churches to re-evaluate how they spend money. Not a bad thing, but has caused stress at all levels of church staffing.
    * A shifting culture, and the owning of the reality that traditional youth ministry programs are fading in their effectiveness… more stress for youth workers.
    * Time to think, causes that stress to bubble to the surface.
    * The length of time things have been stressful (for some, 2-3 years now) causes this stress to manifest itself.

Adam calls it … tribal anxiety. And the big question is … what do we do with it? The link to his article.

The Growing Backlash Against Overparenting

November 26th, 2009

Great article by Nancy Gibbs at Time magazine.

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The insanity crept up on us slowly; we just wanted what was best for our kids. We bought macrobiotic cupcakes and hypoallergenic socks, hired tutors to correct a 5-year-old’s “pencil-holding deficiency,” hooked up broadband connections in the treehouse but took down the swing set after the second skinned knee. We hovered over every school, playground and practice field — “helicopter parents,” teachers christened us, a phenomenon that spread to parents of all ages, races and regions. Stores began marketing stove-knob covers and “Kinderkords” (also known as leashes; they allow “three full feet of freedom for both you and your child”) and Baby Kneepads (as if babies don’t come prepadded). The mayor of a Connecticut town agreed to chop down three hickory trees on one block after a woman worried that a stray nut might drop into her new swimming pool, where her nut-allergic grandson occasionally swam. A Texas school required parents wanting to help with the second-grade holiday party to have a background check first. Schools auctioned off the right to cut the carpool line and drop a child directly in front of the building — a spot that in other settings is known as handicapped parking.

and this ~

The insurgency goes by many names — slow parenting, simplicity parenting, free-range parenting — but the message is the same: Less is more; hovering is dangerous; failure is fruitful. You really want your children to succeed? Learn when to leave them alone. When you lighten up, they’ll fly higher. We’re often the ones who hold them down.

Read the rest of the article here.

LA Times says muppets do queen better than Lambert

November 25th, 2009


I agree!!! Here’s the link to LA Times story.

Wayne’s Cornbread Dressing

November 25th, 2009


I know that I am taking some liberties here by calling it “my” cornbread dressing. After all the recipe card says “mom’s dressing”. But, I have been making it for my family for over 30 years. Everyone calls it “my” dressing … but I do want to give credit to “mom” or whoever’s mom who came up with it first.

You start with one pan of cornbread. Cooked in one of those pyrex glass pans. If you cook it in something else … I don’t guarantee it to taste as good as it does with the glass one. We have a large family so the pan is large … like the 10 x 15 variety. I use Jiffy cornbread mix. It’s the best.

2 slices of white bread (not wheat bread) diced. Now I don’t dice it with a knife. I just pinch off little pieces of the two pieces.

1 sleeve of saltine crackers.

1 cup of celery
1 cup of onions diced and cooked (you don’t have to put this in if you don’t like it)

salt and pepper to taste

Sage and Poultry seasoning to taste (everyone always asks me how much of this … I have done it so long … I go for the smell of the ingredients mixed … I just know)

1 can of chicken broth

Milk to make moist … you don’t want it too runny … but not to dry either.

6 boiled eggs … diced.

Once the cornbread is cooked. Allow it too cool and then find a very large mixing bowl. I use a punch bowl. Wash your hands and then crumble the cooked cornbread up into the bowl.

Put in your pinched off pieces of white bread

Crush up your sleeve of saltines into the mix.

Add the 6 hard boiled eggs … diced by hand

Add seasonings to the dry mix … salt, pepper, sage and poultry. This is when I smell it to see if it’s right.

Add the cooked celery and onions

Add the can of chicken broth

Then add the milk … I think I at least add two cups … but I never measure it … I pour it in from the carton.

Wash your hands again … and mix it all up in the bowl by hand. Adding milk if it is too dry … it has to at least stick together.

Pour all of that into your 10 X 15 and cook it at 350 for 30 minutes or until it is not doughy inside (use a toothpick to tell)

Now, I am not a cook … don’t cook anything else all year long … I mean NOTHING. This is the only thing I do … so I do it well. I am a dressing pro. Everyone always loves it … or they just say it so they will not have to make it.

If you use this recipe and your guests like it … you may use my name in the credits of the meal. If they don’t … just call it Mom’s Dressing … that’s what I do.

Top Ten xTreme Movers on Bing Nov. 25

November 25th, 2009

Top xTreme movers
Wed Nov 25, 2009
1    walmartblackfrida…
2    adam lambert
3    blackfriday ads
4    black friday2009
5    black friday ads
6    aolmail
7    food network
8    green bean…
9    sweet potato…
10    target

TV commercials seen in a year by an average child

November 25th, 2009


Great stats from California State University in Northridge concerning television and health. from this article.

Number of 30-second TV commercials seen in a year by an average child: 20,000
Number of TV commercials seen by the average person by age 65: 2 million
Percentage of survey participants (1993) who said that TV commercials
aimed at children make them too materialistic: 92
Rank of food products/fast-food restaurants among TV advertisements to kids: 1
Total spending by 100 leading TV advertisers in 1993: $15 billion

Percentage of local TV news broadcast time devoted to advertising: 30
Percentage devoted to stories about crime, disaster and war: 53.8
Percentage devoted to public service announcements: 0.7
Percentage of Americans who can name The Three Stooges: 59
Percentage who can name at least three justices of the U.S. Supreme Court: 17

Why Teenagers Are Growing Up So Slowly

November 25th, 2009


From Po Bronson ~

Here’s a Twilight Zone-type premise for you. What if surgeons never got to work on humans, they were instead just endlessly in training, cutting up cadavers? What if the same went for all adults – we only got to practice at simulated versions of our jobs? Lawyers only got to argue mock cases, for years and years. Plumbers only got to fix fake leaks in classrooms. Teachers only got to teach to videocameras, endlessly rehearsing for some far off future. Book writers like me never saw our work put out to the public – our novels sat in drawers. Scientists never got to do original experiments; they only got to recreate scientific experiments of yesteryear. And so on.

Rather quickly, all meaning would vanish from our work. Even if we enjoyed the activity of our job, intrinsically, it would rapidly lose depth and relevance. It’d lose purpose. We’d become bored, lethargic, and disengaged.

In other words, we’d turn into teenagers.

and this –

Basically, we long ago decided that teens ought to be in school, not in the labor force. Education was their future. But the structure of schools is endlessly repetitive. “From a Martian’s perspective, high schools look virtually the same as sixth grade,” said Allen. “There’s no recognition, in the structure of school, that these are very different people with different capabilities.” Strapped to desks for 13+ years, school becomes both incredibly montonous, artificial, and cookie-cutter.

This article is a must read for parents, youth ministers and educators alike. Here is the link.