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Monkeyholics

March 10th, 2010


monkeyholics

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I have no idea who the Monkeyholics are … but, I am sure that they will have the coolest tshirt at their event this weekend. Our client wanted a shirt that would pop and I think we delivered. It has to be some type of cool 4 wheel drive club with monster tires and such. Looks fun no matter what.

I have owned two jeeps in my lifetime, so far (wink wink), and I love the mud. Not a big fan of getting stuck. Here’s a story from my past. My first jeep was a CJ-5. Very short wheelbase, still had that body style from previous military model. We lived in Lufkin, Texas at the time … I was a youth minister … the guys in my youth group loved the red jeep as well. Living in the Pineywoods … lots of logging roads and the such near where we lived. Well, on Saturday morning … off I went exploring some trails, ruts, ravines, etc. I happened upon this cool creek … not too steep … should be a no brainer. I slowly pulled down into the creek at an angle and when I got to the bottom the front wheels began to go up while the back wheels continued to go down when all of a sudden I felt the entire body kind of twist … and pop … I did not have a clutch. Seems the deal that pushes in the pressure plates just popped out. I was stranded. No winch. Nothing. The really bad thing. I was suppose to sing in a wedding that afternoon. I was probably a good 5 miles from anything. (This was pre-cell phone days) and no one knew where I was.

I trekked out of the woods and honestly I can not recall how we got the jeep out and home … I was just trying to get to the wedding. I made it. I am sure some great friends helped in getting my jeep home.

The next weekend at our normal youth meeting my kids presented me with a brand new come-along. (come-along is like a winch you can use by hand) I still have that come-along to this day.

To continue an all ready super long post … I think I would like to try a Suzuki Samauri for a next project. I hear they are pretty fun.

Insecure Infants grow up to be Insecure adolescents

November 30th, 2009


Interesting article brought to us by Jim Liebel at Youth Culture Watch.

Researchers from the Université de Montréal, Sainte-Justine University Hospital Center and McGill University have discovered that insecure adolescents experience more intense pain in the form of frequent headaches, abdominal pain and joint pain. These teens are also more likely to be depressed than peers with secure attachments.

and this is an interesting statement:

“Although previous studies in adults found that an individual’s security level was influenced by painful experiences, it was not clear why relationship security should be related to pain,” says Dr. Tremblay. “We found that adolescents with insecure relationships tend to be more ‘alarmist’ about their pain symptoms; they have a tendency to amplify the degree of threat or severity of their pain. This amplification leads to more intense pain and more severe depressive symptoms.”

From this article: @ ScienceDaily

Youth ministry, an anxious tribe

November 26th, 2009


Adam Mclane from adamclane.com has an interesting post that I have pondered and re-pondered. His “Anxiety in Youth Ministry” is well founded in my heart, as I too have been anxious for a couple of years as to … what will happen to church as we know it … or have known it. Adam quotes Campolo …

“Church, as we know it today, will collapse with the economy. And we will shake ourselves off and ask, ‘what do we do now?”

I know many will read this and just let it settle on deaf ears as some fatalistic statement from a kook. But, is it really? If I were an employed minister on a church staff at this point in history … I would be anxious too. Oh, I am anxious enough with the economy and owning my own business. Truth be told, when I first began to feel anxious about the future of the church as a whole … I felt that I needed to do something about not depending on the “organizational” church for my income. Another story, and I digress.

Adam makes this observation next in his post.

A year later we have to step back and acknowledge that in many ways Tony was right.

    * A down economy has forced tens of thousands of churches to re-evaluate how they spend money. Not a bad thing, but has caused stress at all levels of church staffing.
    * A shifting culture, and the owning of the reality that traditional youth ministry programs are fading in their effectiveness… more stress for youth workers.
    * Time to think, causes that stress to bubble to the surface.
    * The length of time things have been stressful (for some, 2-3 years now) causes this stress to manifest itself.

Adam calls it … tribal anxiety. And the big question is … what do we do with it? The link to his article.